Now some of you may be confused. I live with Luz Maria, Donald, and Gerobal permanently. Otoniel, Angelica, and Gabriel don't live with us permanently, but visit frequently.
Merry Christmas to everyone! The last week here has been a little slower than normal (which is rreeeaaallly slow) because it's Christmas. But, slow does not mean no weird experiences or cool new cultural understanding:
First, I went to a church service with my host mom. Here, "Christians" are Pentacostal Evangelicals, 7th Day Adventists...it's not an all encompassing word for someone who believes in Jesus Christ. So, I went to the "Christian" church here. First, I remembered to wear a skirt (their women don't wear pants unless they are riding a donkey or motorcycle) and was proud of myself for remembering that. But, then I get to the church (I walked over there with my host mom) and saw my host dad, so I went to sit by him. I was quickly told that that was the men's side of the church, I needed to sit on the women/children's side. No problem. After some opening songs, which I knew none of, they opened the floor for "Free Time." That is, anyone can come up to say something or lead a song. Most of this is no problem as people lead songs that everyone knows and so it goes smoothly. Well, one guy was a visitor and got up to lead a song that no one knew, so he was singing by himself....and he was not good. Then my host dad gets up there (and he is a good singer, so it was fine) and after his song starts talking about his daughter that is with him tonight (ie-me) and all this stuff about me. After I politely said I'll just stay where I'm at, things moved on until my host mom went up and did the same thing. Fine, now that the spotlight has been on me twice in one night, I got to sit back for the hour long sermon, which really didn't talk about much. All in all it wasn't a bad time, but 2 1/2 hours in a church is just a little too long for me.
Then, on Monday I was to go to a church's meal for children. This is the church that asked me to help them with the homework room and the birth certificate project. This guy told me he worked for the Catholic Church. This guy told me that this meal was going to be in the church up the street. This guy MEANT to say he is an adventist pastor and "up the street" as in a completely different town. Still, I did not realize this until two motorcycles showed up to take me and Claire (who I conned into going with me) up to this meal and I began to realize it was the church in town. Then we get there and we're at an Evangelical church. Ok, still, no big deal. Then he starts talking about how I'm going to go give English classes to those children. This wouldn't be a big deal if he wanted it once a week and was willing to pay for transportation, but teaching English isn't my main project and this isn't the town I'm supposed to be working in, so we'll see what we can work out. The food was good, though. Then, Claire and I saw the poorest people either of us had seen since coming into this country. The clothes were tattered, they obviously did not bathe much, and they ate EVERYTHING we gave them. We felt bad for them (they live in a pretty inaccessible part of the mountain, so these two children don't get any help and their mom doesn't want them to go to school). Then, the most well off people there were laughing at how poor they were, that kind of broke my Christmas spirit. Later, someone asked the pastor, quietly, why we were there. He said, I invited them, they can help with some of our projects. The woman replied: and they're rich. He said: yes. That again, broke a little of my spirit and made me wonder...they know we speak Spanish, why say those sort of blatant things right in front of us as if we don't understand?
The last two days have been fun. My host sister came into town. She's about 20 and lives in Santo Domingo and works at a bank. She is extremely nice and helpful. She speaks so clearly and I understand 100% of what she says. Plus, she sticks up for me. When people ask why I don't dance, she tells them they know nothing about American culture. I told her I don't like walking by the Discotech alone because of all the hissing and so she went with me and told off all the men. When people scoff that I'm not looking for a boyfriend, she tells them that they wouldn't be good enough anyway. And, if I don't understand someone, she translates it into clear Spanish, and when someone is being obnoxious with the hand gestures because they think my Spanish is so horrible, she yells at them and tells them my Spanish is probably better than theirs because I don't have a "campesino" (hick) accent. I'm glad she's here, obviously. Last night we had a huge meal of salads, rice/beans, chicken (which we cooked on an open flame outside because the "flavor" is better), empanadas (like a fried hot pocket), and APPLES (which are expensive here). It was great. Today we are just kind of lounging around and later my host sister might "fix my hair." If that happens, I'll take a picture.
Well, that's long enough. On the 27th I am heading to the South to see a friend's parents who are coming for the holiday and then for the New Years I will be on the north coast (Cabarete). Merry Christmas Everyone!


























